When I have been on dates with a guy and we text eventually he may ask what i'm up to or how was my night, etc but I was actually on a date with someone else I will usually tell them what the activity was (bowling, dinner, etc) or say I'm out with a friend. This guy I actually am really into I went on two dates with and a similar thing has happened and I'm going out with someone else to keep my options open. This time though he asked me right out "who i'm going bowling with, any worthy competition ;) " Is this an innuendo for him thinking i might be on a date with another man or it's completely innocent and the wink means nothing? Leading up to this there has been some mystery going on like where both of us don't answer all the questions in the message to be a bit mysterious which i know to be a good trick, but should i actually answer him this time and say just with a friend or leave the question hanging and answer other parts of the message that he sent. I want to leave it hanging to be mysterious but in someway i feel its manipulating him into liking me. I am slightly an insecure person and especially with him I guess because i like him so much. Note that he actually right out told me on our date that he usually only goes out with 1 girl at a time and sees where things go and if it works out and doesn't go out with multiple girls which I thought was interesting of him to tell me that since we only went on 2 dates so far. I thought he might be the player type because he is hot and very sociable guy. So should i answer his question this time or be mysterious?
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What Guys Said 2
Yes, women use the word friend most guys think of a guy because the word is so ambiguous.
You trying not to lie to while lying to him at the same time. Next time just lie or tell the truth that your exploring your options and you need to window shopping before you purchase.0
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