Do you already have to be in love before entering the relationship? Or can you enter it AND THEN fall in love?
Most Helpful Girl
I don't see the point of waiting until you're in love to enter a relationship.
A relationship is about growing and learning with one another, and along the way you fall in love with the quirks and the imperfections that your partner has.
You can't fall in love with someone you barely know, and if you don't know them and aren't in a relationship with them... what's going to make you commit to sticking around and focusing on just them long enough to fall in love, if you're unsure whether the other is invested enough in ya'll's future together?1
Most Helpful Guy
The basis of most relationships is lust. Beyond that they either turn into love or in most cases undying hatred.1