I'm going to be 30yrs old in 6 months' time, and I've still never felt the touch of a woman. No-one has ever returned my affections, no matter how freely they lavish those affections upon everyone else. Everyone is unattainable- no-one’s attracted to me, and in their eyes, I’m the least desirable person in the world. I don't think that I am, don't see myself this way. But that NEVER changes how other people see me, how they talk about me and the things they all say about me any time I try to open my heart to anyone and give it a chance. In their eyes, feeling, caring, is an inherently unattractive trait in any male. Because any man who displays overt, definitive attraction towards a woman, as opposed to covert, subtle attraction, nonchalance or indifference, is automatically deemed to be ‘desperate’.
So whenever I start to allow myself to have any feelings towards them whatsoever, or even to just be comfortable enough around them not to hold everything in and express even the tiniest bit of emotion about anything at all, they instantly pick up on it, and become so repulsed by my ‘weak’, ‘pitiful’, and ‘unmanly’ emotions that they can’t stand to be anywhere near me, or to ever have any contact with me ever again. This has happened more times than I can count, with practically every girl I’ve ever had even the slightest bit of romantic interest in. And I can’t delude myself into believing that anyone can possible love me any more, not when all of the experiential evidence I’ve ever collected, along with all the observations of those around me, tells me otherwise. I can't stop myself from becoming emotionally invested in people, from caring about people. And this makes me inherently undesirable, utterly unlovable in the eyes of women. Is it time to give up on love? And if so, how can I do it?
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Dude, for real enjoy life, to its fullest extent, pay no mind to what people think or do.
Be yourself and don't be so desperate about it.
You see when you try to force something it will never successively be done.
So go out have fun, enjoy life with girls but pay me little attention you are the hunter not them. You set the rules. Women like man who can stood their ground, and are confident in themselves. Not a crying for help person.
Let me try to explain what I said in a bit simple way.
Now every women wants to feel, at ease, protected and loved. Now the thing is they don't like a man who is down on his spirt and can't take care of them. You will probably think that this is mumbo jumbo but it's the truth get grasp of reality and live the life you have been given and I no time you will find the right one.
Life is amazing, but never when you see it with the dark spot of your eyes.1
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