I met a guy on a dating website a few weeks ago and we kinda liked each other. We started talking over phone and the guy seemed to be very serious about me. He even started making future plans involving me which was weird since we had never met before. He said he had never dated anybody seriously but he liked me a lot and thought we could have a future together. So we decided and met each other last week and I discovered that he was totally naive. He tried to surprise me on our first date but it rather came out as a shock. He said he would call me before he started from his place but the next moment he said he was waiting outside my apartment. He tried to impress me in a thousand other ways but nothing worked well. I was disappointed and he too understood that I didn't like him much. The only thing I liked about him was his simplicity. Do you guys think he deserves a chance? the guy looks good but isn't at all conscious about his body, dressing sense or food habits. In a dilemma. Please help!
Most Helpful Guy
Move on. You can do better0
Most Helpful Girl
No, sorry. He sounds a bit weird. Men without basic social skills give me a bit of a creepy vibe. I think he has the potential to turn into a stalker.
He sounds very inexperienced and a bit desperate, which is not as bad if he was 18 or something, but I'm guessing he was around your age?
It's a massive red flag to me if men are very into me before we've even met in person.0