hi friends! so i've been dating my boyfriend for a few weeks, but we've known each other for two years. he's really awesome!!! i love spending time with him. the only dilemma i'm having is that i feel like we're taking it too fast. he loves to be physical and touch me in places that don't necessarily make me uncomfortable, but make me feel like it's a little much for the time frame and everything. how can i tell him this without making him feel upset or mad at me? thank you so much for your help!!!
Most Helpful Guy
It's as simple as a straightforward convosation with you telling him what you are okay with and what your not, if he respects you he will understand. He will continue to push his limits every now and then with you, you just have to keep him in control.2
Most Helpful Girl
Sit him down here, dear, and tell him in a "Slow" but Gentle manner that you really Care about him, but you want to Take things 'Slow' right now so that Something Special that you Both have Started, doesn't Mess Up... A Beautiful Two years 'We've known each other.'
If he really Has Heart for you, he will Understand and Not be 'Mad at me,' but Instead in his own Head, Admire you for your Maturity and Move Slow with the Flow Now as well.
Good luck. xx1