So I met a guy on OkCupid and we've been msging on kik for about 2 weeks now and he says that we should hang out. I say that'd be nice and ask when and he tells me he has to check his schedule then says he won't be available til 2 weeks from now.
He works 35hrs a week at a regular retail type of job so I don't see how he'd be booked up.
Am I reading too much into this? Most of the time a guy wants to meet up within a week or at least a week after msging.
If his interested in you then there is no excuse. He will find a way around his schedule to meet you if he was at least a little bit interested. I'd suggest finding other guys that actually want to date you. But if you really like this guy you have to make yourself seem busy; make him value the time you guys spend together! But he doesn't sound like his worth it; leave him :)
Who cares? Just wait out the two weeks and see how things go from there... Maybe later you can truly find out if you really are the backup plane if he really had that much work or whatever it is that had him delay... And then YOU can make the decision if it's actually worth your time to consider him as a potential date/bf/ etc etc..
BUT!! IF after two weeks he postpones again, I'd just advice you to tell him farewell and have a nice life! Then you move on... And don't keep contact with him if he does that. .. It's a waste of time.