I've liked this guy for almost two years. I was a sophomore and he was a senior. It didn't really workout between us when he still in school. We only talked on social media a couple of times but I got into a fight with him because I found out from people that he was a major well known player in our school. Despite that I still had feelings for him and still do. Now I'm going to be a senior. I like the person I'm now than back then because I've been doing ufc training and lifting, new tattoos and a biker ( But I'm not a tom boy) since then. I contacted him a month ago and told him as soon as summer starts I will be with him. A month ago we started talking again like it seemed like I was in a relationship with him. We've been sexting eachother too. But the problem is that I'm scared that he's still a player after two years. Although he said he wants to be in a relationship with me but I don't know him that well to tell if he's lying or telling the truth. He said he wants to do a lot of things with me. I don't know what to do. I haven't met him in person yet. I don't intend on keeping this for more than summer because I want to focus on school then. I just want him. Is it wrong to be like this?
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You seem confused but have your mind set on him. I don't know if there's anything we can say to convince you he's bad news so I'm just going to tell you what I see here with blunt honesty.
You're making yourself really easy to use and dump. You've basically promised him a month of meaningless sex after graduation. What do you expect him to do with you? Do you really think he's going to take you seriously or something after this? You're just going to be some chick he banged for a while. And you haven't even SEEN him in person for two years. BIG RED FLAG right there. You have no idea what he's doing nor who he's doing it to. You're in lust. He's going to get all the sex he can out of you, then you'll find out for certain *if* he's still a player in life.1