I've tried, and tried to get any woman to even just go on a date with me, but with no success. I've tried online dating (i. e. Tinder, okcupid, pof, happen, bumble, etc.) for nearly a year now, but with no success... I've tried cold approaches. I've tried talking to women in my college courses. Nothing works... I dont know what to do. I don't have any friends (because I don't want any), family, or acquaintances.
i suffer with severe depression (yes I'm medicated, and no it hasn't helped, and yes I've told my doc, but he has pretty much ran out of options.) and anxiety disorder.
i especially hate men (probably because i was bullied throughout school)
i work out 4 times a week and I'm in fairly good health.
i just always feel empty and shitty. I just want someone, but i guess I'm just shit outta luck.
p. s. Please don't say "oh you're still young, you've got time" well to that i say, I'm not interested in living alone, and if I'm still alone at 29 well I'm checking out early.
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I have depression and I know it isn't rainbows and sunshine (I've been medicated before and I hated it). It's really tough to deal with. I have to tell you though, relationships and depression don't mix well. I know being in a relationship may seem like a great opportunity to have some be there for you, but sometime that person might not get what you're going through.
I think you should try to become more positive (I don't know any other way to phrase that and I know you can't just "become" positive) because it doesn't matter if you're healthy, if you act "sad" around people, most cases they won't know how to comfort you so they don't want to deal with it. Try to form bonds with others as friends rather than start looking for relationships. Surround yourself with people even if you don't want any friends. Being around people who care about you really helps.
I know how it feels to be completely hopeless but don't put yourself down. Have a little patience, too. :) Somethings take time.
Also, it's easier for a girl to fall for you when she feel's close to you and gets to know you. So, befriend her first, rather than focus on dating her.0