Most Helpful Guy
Not in a lot of states and places. You'll have to look up the laws for where you live. In my state, we have the "Three Year Rule". So, if you're within three years, then you have a *defense* for statutory rape. But only a defense. Having sex with a minor is still illegal. But, the age of consent in my state is also 17, but I'm kinda confused on that: I don't know if that means that 17 year olds can fuck whomever they like, or if that just means they're legally allowed to have sex. But if that were the case, then it would be legally punishable for a 16 year old to have sex with a 16 year old, since they weren't at the age of consent.
So. Look up the age of consent where you live. It should be anywhere from 14-18. Most likely 16-18. In this case, I *think* it would be fine for a 17 year old girl to date a 21 year old guy.0
Most Helpful Girl
21 is not old. 5 years is not a high gap. I have 4 friends and they're 17. Their boyfriends are around 20 or 21. I also don't have a problem with it as long as you guys love each other but the hard thing entering a relationship when you're still in ageteen, its kind of hard to know what your man thinks (21 years old). Older people thinks differently but i guess thats not the issue here.0