His been messaging me and talking to me on the phone nearly everyday and we hit it off really well. We're always silly and talk about random things and then later as I got to know him he told me that he had family issues and money issues. He doesn't have a family anymore or he just doesn't keep in contact with them (visa versa) and he lives in his car. He has a job as an auto mechanic and his a specialist with Volkswagens and he pretty much is an excessive pot user. I told my mum about him and she was very uncomfortable with it (haven't even told her about him smoking pot!) but I think she is worried that he might want to live with us.
I am the complete opposite from him. I live with my parents; we have a great relationship, I don't do drugs and I tend to stay healthy as much as possible. I go to university and I work in my mother's business.
I've always wondered if he could change; I do like him but with these issues he has I think he might need to sort them out for himself? But I doubt he ever will. He said he wants to live in a van (His a big hippie!) and my dad has very high expectations for my boyfriends (Ive never had one due to him)
What should I do? I want to help him out of drugs and homelessness but he seems to like it? lol
Most Helpful Guy
It won't change and he sounds like a loser pothead. If he wasn't buying so much weed he could probably afford a real place. His priorities are all wrong. Run from this one and never look back1
Most Helpful Girl
Walk away. His aspirations are perfectly fine--for him. Trust me, you do not want to end up living in a van.1