I was talking to this guy who was super into me and then we got in a small argument, and then the next week he was acting weird and barely responding and said he just didn't want to rush into anything, (i clarified already that I didn't either), and that he didn't want to butt heads again. Then he started not replying and we had planned a trip together and I had taken off of work and it was getting close so I kept messaging him and asking him what was going on up until the point where I was convinced he was just a fuck boy and I told him that. He responded with a long message about how we were unhealthy and I showed my true colors (when all I wanted was a response) and that he thought about it but didn't want to be with me romantically. I sent back a well thought out response explaining everything. He didn't respond. A week or so later I sent him a snapchat and asked how he was doing and he told me and talked to me casually on and off, watched all my stories, reblogged stuff from my tumblr, and then one day he just stopped. I texted him saying no hard feelings and thanking him because even though we didn't work out, he made me realize I needed to distance myself for good from my ex and stuff, no response, then I asked him if he could possibly come get the stuff he left and he said he would. Then he unfriended me on facebook and snapchat randomly; I saw him at a bar and he didn't acknowledge me but kept walking past me and making it really obvious he was there. What do I take from this?
Most Helpful Guy
You're relationship is permanently over and cannot be salvaged and you will not be friends0
Most Helpful Girl
I think we should know what kind of argument it was and what kind of conversation you had.
For example, if it was an argument where you said something which is against his ideology, or belief or some kind of thing he holds dear, he might think you're not the one due to these differences.
OR if this is not the case,
He was just another guy who was looking for fun and said "Bye I am getting the f*** out of this relationships before it even starts", then it means forget him, don't even spend a second thinking of him because apparently he is scared of serious things, and you would not want to waste your time I am sure.
But think of the argument again. You may find clues why he behaves like that suddenly.0