Lol I'm damn near 20 years old and basically been called beautiful/pretty My whole life yet I've only had one boyfriend which was a total asshole and we basically was just introduced by friends but he didn't actually ask me out. I've never been asked out by a guy before, never even been on a date and I'm a little embarrassed/ashamed to admit that. why do I constantly get stared at, told I'm beautiful, yet never been asked out or on a date with a guy?
Most Helpful Guy
because guys dont normally ask girls out, guys risk rejection way more than a girl, so most guys expect the girl to approach and make the moves, especially if a girl is beautiful (like most are) girls are the ones who decide on who she wants when she wants, because their beauty prevents rejection, guys dont have that luxury.
so when you see a guy looking at you (checking you out) thats when the girl is supposed to respond and approach, that is if you like him too.
or if you (a girl) like a guy and is crushing, you have to approach, you have to tell him how you feel. and you have to tell and let the guy know what you want, simple as that
so girls out there listen up, quit this "guys have to approach and do the asking and have to do everything" bullshit, because it doesn't work that way.1
Most Helpful Girl
It's not about your looks. You have to be somebody a guy can invest in a relationship with. It also depends on how you want to be approached and what are your goals and intentions for a relationship. You have to know before you seek one. Another thing is to only be ready to talk when you feel comfortable. If your not comfortable to be approached then they won't try to talk to you. Some prefer to just look even if you do smile or never look busy. Change the environment your in. Remember that if you don't feel safe you don't need to respond as you have no idea what their true intentions are with you. You can't trust everybody just because they look 'cute/hot'.1