My girlfriend and I wanna go on vacation together next month, I thought about going to the beach but I'm not sure how she'd feel about it. How do most feel about it?
Most Helpful Girl
absolutely. i can't stay away from the beach for too long. honey, a lot of girls are very iffy when it comes to a man with a type of sickness, disability or anything else deemed "different". your girlfriend is an exception to that, and that alone should make u smile everyday. go to the beach. have fun.1
Most Helpful Guy
Sorry that I don't know you, and my best friend, too! We could build you some super-sand tank tracks for your chair!!! I would assume she is mostly going to be concerned about how you will negotiate the sand, as wheels, especially thin, wheel-chair wheels, don't do well in porous, shifting media, like beach sand!
Instead of the chair, maybe try something like a little snow sled, one of those sled/disk things, maybe, that you could sit on, and she could pull you out, or maybe you could move yourself on the right kind of 'sled'.
Have you researched it online, to see if there are ready-made things that could help you have a good time, and reduce her anxiety?
I'm thinking maybe she has some anxiety about it, so you should talk with her, about how she feels about being out, in the sand, and maybe the water, if you haven't already.
Are you OK being in the water, with someone with you?
It could totally work!! You should totally do it, but make sure she is OK, and understands, and you are more than safe so she doesn't worry!!1