I went on a date with a guy and I absolutely LOVED him. I'd never liked someone so much just from one date before. I thought he was cute, sweet, interesting. Then, on the second date suddenly when I was looking at him I didn't feel that attracted to him, and generally felt kind of annoyed by his personality. Has anyone else had this happen to you? I don't understand how I can get a different vibe when he looked/acted generally the same? Should I just continue to date him and see how it goes?
Most Helpful Guy
Yes... meet a girl talk and they seem amazing then the next time i was secretly wishing they would choke to death on ice..1
Most Helpful Girl
yeah this has happened to me. Sometimes you need that second date to know if you are really interested. The first and second dates you are still figuring out if you really like this person.
SO yeah your feeling that way bc you are not that into him like you thought u were. Being around him again is when u realized the way he is is not your cup of tea after all.
If you feel up need to see him one more time just to be sure, go ahead but if you really not feeling it, forcing it is not gonna work. Youd be wasting your time bc there is nothing there. No spark, no chemistry. Thats what dating is about to see who is right for you and it took date 2 to feel that way. why? its just y'all dont have that spark altho you did like him at first. not strong enough..0