i had a fuck buddy for about a month or two months and when I told him that I started dating someone else. He didn't say anything and he told me that he was happy for me and that we weren't dating so why not. Then when I become official with this guy, I told my fuck buddy that I can't hook up with him anymore. He got really jealous. He told me that he was developing feelings for me and wanted me. We agreed that we would date and I would leave my boyfriend. The next day, I texted my fuck buddy and he didn't answer the whole day. I was asking him if I should dump my boyfriend or not , he didn't answer for two days. Then I told him that I decided to stay with my boyfriend and I called his phone then he started replying to my texts and said that he didn't know what to say. We eventually agreed to stay friends. Today I was texting my fuck buddy (as a friend) and he was getting upset and said stop texting me, you have the other guy now.. I don't get my fuck buddy's problem. Like when I was single, he made promises to take me out but he never would. Now I'm with someone else and he is angry about it. What does he want from me? I'm with my boyfriend because he treats me better and I told my fuck buddy that but I don't know he is still getting jealous
3mo Also I asked him if I should dump my boyfriend and stay with him and he said that I should date my boyfriend and I said why? And he was like because I don't love you and the other probably does and I said but you said you were falling for me and he said I thought I was but I'm not sure anymore
I just blocked his number and deleted him from my contacts to prevent myself from talking to him again
Well, in a way, he's right, you shouldn't texting you former fuck buddy with a boyfriend.
But it doesn't take a monkey to see what's wrong. He has no feelings for you, just your vagina. He's mad he's not getting sex anymore.
And, by the way, I saw you reply to @reptocarl comment. No, he's not being selfish. You're actually being the selfish one here. You have a boyfriend that you were willing to dump for your fuck buddy who clearly has no feelings for you and you want to see if he's jealous and wants you. You obviously don't feel too strongly about the boyfriend you have now or else this wouldn't be an issue. You're just keeping your current SO around because the other guy won't come around, which isn't fair. You're pretty disrespectful.