Set up Tinder for the heck of it, posted 6 cute pics of myself with a nice bio and all. wasn't really expecting much to happen but am open to casual dating.
See this guy who is hot and like him.. we match. He is super hot, muscular, and is a high ranking military officer with a degree in engineering. Describes himself as a "honey bear". Has pictures of himself next to a porsche, in his military uniform, in the pool. Turns out he is 31 and says he usually dates a little younger than himself because younger girls are more energetic and fun. Im 18. We have talked a little bit but he says he hates getting to know someone through text (he "likes to look someone in the eyes when he speaks") and wants to meet over coffee.
I know this is the point of the app, but I guess I'm still really nervous because he is older. Like, I would casually date an older guy but I'm not sure if it's a good idea doing it through tinder. What do you think? Comments appreciated.
- Yes, set up a date.33% (5)54% (7)43% (12)Vote
- No, tell him you're not interested.27% (4)31% (4)29% (8)Vote
- Not yet, tell him that he has to wait longer and talk more before meeting you.40% (6)15% (2)28% (8)Vote
Most Helpful Guy
Tinder is a stretch even for casual dating lol His profile screams that he is looking for one and dump thing, which is fine if you are into that, it sounds like you think he is hot lol
But I would not expect him to contact you after that or for anything other than sex... Again, cool if tha'ts what you want- but it does not sound like it.0
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Most Helpful Girl
date him but be careful. older people are obviously more experienced (not like he's thaaat old but he's quite a few years older than you) and you don't wanna blindly commit to someone like that quite yet so get to know him first. you wanna make sure he's not trying to take advantage of your inexperience and naivety or anything. especially when he says he likes to date younger women. that could sound a little fishy but who knows. you gotta give it a shot first. :) my best friend's parents are like 20 something years apart so it's different for everyone!0