I have a predicament, I like 2 different guys. It's pretty new with both of them but I could see something coming out of both. So at what point do you think I should stop seeing one?
3mo One of them is going to a bachelor party out of town and asked me what I'm doing tonight. Should I tell him I have a "friend" coming over? The other guy is coming over tonight. I don't know how honest I should be
I think it's both smart and stupid. What you really need to ask yourself is, "Does one of them have everything I want, or do I only like both of them because they both have two separate things that I want." If the answer is the latter, you're up shit creek. Neither them will ever be the complete package and you won't be able to keep dating both of them forever. Eventually they'll find out and you'll be single again. If the answer is the former, then pray you make up your mind before either one of them finds out, otherwise you're back to shit creek with no paddle.
I think its OK to be dating, thats how you pick who you want a relationship with, however its wrong for them not to know that they aren't your only person you're seeing, its good to be open about it. Most likely you will make that decision on your own
I think we are allowed to date as many people as we like as long as we are not exclusive with any of them. I mean that's the whole point of dating! To keep dating and dating and dating until we find that one person that makes us not want anyone else.