so today is my boyfriends 19th birthday and we're in a long distance relationship so the first special thing I did for him was wake up 3 hours early when he usually wakes up (he's 3 hours ahead of my time) and I texted him happy birthday and said I wish I could come over there and give you a birthday kiss, and it showed that he wasn't online so I thought, "ok maybe he's eating breakfast" so I'm not the clingy type to text a lot so I waited paitiently by doing something else for a couple of hours and then checked my phone and it still showed he was offline (3 pm his time) and then I thought "okay maybe he's having a party with friends" so Right now I'm just doing my regular routine I mean he has every right to not talk to me since I guess he's going to be busy all day. I mean the thing that confuses me is that yesterday he said I'll talk to you later today, but he didn't, so I'm thinking I guess he was busy or if he has lost interest in me. But anyways I wanted to do something special for him by talking to him on the phone since talking on the phone seems more special and saying happy birthday and making him feel special. I thought for sure he would want to talk today so he wouldn't miss me and thinking about me much on his birthday (just guessing, I don't think guys really miss or think about their girlfriends on their birthday) I'm not sure what to do should I just wait and if he doesn't answer (he doesn't talk on the weekend at all) should I just say happy belated birthday to him on Monday and then surprise him or would it be considered weird since then it would be 3 days ever since his birthday? And does he seem interested in me anymore? I know texting doesn't mean much but saying hi then directly after that him saying I'll talk to you later and not doing so doesn't seem like he's interested. What should I do about these 2 situations? Like I said I'm not clingy so I give him space but like I said him saying "hi talk To you later" doesn't seem right.
So today is my boyfriends birthday but when I texted him it says he was offline, I'm not sure what to do since I planned a special surprise for him?
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3 years ago today was my ex's bday whom i was in LDR with. I had the same situation and it didn't turn out well, and he was like 'it is all because of distance". I dont have any suggestion for you but i wanted to wish you good luck in this situation and in this long distance relationship.0
It is 4th of July weekend so did he have plans? Did he go to a cabin or something with no internet perhaps?0
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