I am a 20 year old virgin and me and this guy have been talking for a couple months. I've never been in a super serious relationship because I am in college. He is 24 and it just worries me because he isn't a virgin and has had sex with two other girlfriends prior to me. He knows that I am a virgin and is very understanding and patient about it. He is sweet and funny and has never asked me about sex or anything. I just worry that he is going to compare me to other girls because he is more experienced than me and told me he has never had sex with a virgin before. Is he going to be disappointed if I am not good the first time?
Most Helpful Guy
No need to be insecure, if he already knows that you are a virgin then he really should already have realistic expectations about it and he really should know what to expect, no one can be perfect their very first time because of anxiety and insecurities, etc. Just don't think about it at all and relax. If he gets disappointed then he is not being realistic about what he expects from you.
And that is if you absolutely decide to give away your virginity and be with him for your very first time. It's entirely on you to decide.2
Most Helpful Girl
Awwe I hope things go well.
I don't think he'd be disappointed the first time. You can always get better ya know ;)
If it were me I'd be weary that he knows like what if he's just pretending... I'd say 6-9 months is when you really know the guy cares and how long he's been knowing you're a virgin... caz for me I don't tell guys upfront since some get interested for the wrong reason like I'm some conquest0