Is a guy coming on super strong at the beginning of a relationship (telling the girl she's so beautiful/wonderful/special, making comments about the future in the first couple of dates, saying I love you really soon) always a bad sign? In my experience it either means he has some serious issues or is looking for sex?
Most Helpful Guy
Bad sign, sounds like a guy like that is super possessive, which is always a red flag.0
Most Helpful Girl
I would say that is a bad thing, as my ex did the exact same thing. When we 1st started dating he made me grand promises, said flattering words and made himself seem perfect. Forward a couple months that all crumbled and by the end I was in love w/a guy who BSed me from the very start. Once the illusion ended I was left w/a shattered heart that took months to heal. Always listen to your gut and if you feel something is off, I would back off.0