I feel like I shouldn't say I want to hook up though i do
I also want a relationship and sometimes just to chat though I can get that on the forum.
I like sex have a high sex drive I also like companionship where I'm able comfortable being open in person not just anonymously or semi anonymously.
I assume most guys say they want to hook up Iv been told apparently girls get bombarded with messages, though Iv had replies to 3 out of the 4 messages I sent so far which is good though no one's messaged me :( other than on the forum to give me advice which was really nice :) but just in a being helpful kind of way and they were on the opposite side of the world anyway or near enough.
Also it all feels a bit like a CV.
should I tone down my openness to hooking up and try to be more relationship focused?
Most Helpful Girl
Everyone fucking lies. Especially those who say they don't.1
Most Helpful Guy
Never. In fact, I've found that the more honest you are, the less the women there are interested. Kinda says a lot about them, huh?1