I have had guys ask me out, but they were not my type. I think my problem is that I attract a lot of older guys, but once they find out I am in high school, they don't want to date me anymore. I don't know what to do. Should I just wait till college, where there is a better range of guys to date?
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Not at all. It's better for you. It's ok to think of school first and relationship later. When it's meant to be it will happen. Sometimes having a career and thinking of you first is a really good thing. It can help a relationship in many ways. You'd never feel like you were complete. Some think of boys and school and get caught up in the relationship and realize they've never had time to do their own thing in life and that's even after children and marriage and they end up in divorce just because of that. You're ahead of the game and going into the right direction. You'll be happier this way. You'll find that special one and it'll mean more to you both. I promise you that. Wait till it happens. College is way better. Have fun let someone come to you and you date and get to know someone. They'll be times where you've known a person for years but you really don't KNOW the person. Take your time you're young still and everything will fall into play. Your first will love and respect you ten times more knowing he's the only one and THE ONE. Relationships can make life complicated believe me. Focus on school first especially if you want a specific career cause a relationship will only interfere with your concentration. The wrong relationship will ruin many things. Just go with it and wait till college and have fun first. Then when it feels right you'll just know. I'm happy for you that you've waited. You're so lucky and your future husband will adore you for life. Your first always does and having him apart of you and being the father of your children makes for a very happy life together. Good luck girl. I would love to have had someone talk to me about this when I was in high school. I've seen the kind of love that two people have that are one another's first loves, it's so beautiful and you can be nothing but happy and so in love. You've done good. No worries. You're more special then you'll ever know😊1