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Not all of them are like that.
It might be because anxious attachment is a way of describing the way some people connect with others especially emotionally significant others in their lives, Individuals with an anxious attachment believe they’re flawed, inadequate and unworthy of love.
Some infants perceive their parents as inconsistently available, which distressed them (understandably so, children need their caregivers for their very survival.)
When kids become distressed, their parents may give them extra attention. These kids also may receive attention when they meet others' needs.
Over time, they develop a characteristic sense of feeling needy for attention and needing others to help soothe them. They believe they aren’t loved for themselves, but for what they do for others or how they respond to their needs.
Naturally, such beliefs negatively affect their relationships.