A lot of men comment "you're mysterious, there is something your not telling me" " put something in my ear" " did someone hurt you"
" I want to know more" "let me know something". What would cause these comments? Certain topics not discussed what?
I'll post more after I heard answers
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Maybe you have a quiet manner or seem serious - If you are shy or tentative, some guys assume something has happened in the past - My own view is wait for the girl/woman to tell you if something is up even if you feel there is something in the background - I definitely wouldn't broach the topic early in an relationship but after a time if I had concerns I might explore more in my communication with her.
It is one of those things for me that if it feels right I might talk about it but there are no standard signals just a feeling you get. Some may be more open to expressing empathy than others and it is up to other person whether they want to respond or not. I have definitely got it wrong in the past where there was nothing big wrong or they didn't want to talk about it but then again a lot of the times I was right.
Part of me goes it is okay to be wrong if it means I can help a lot of other times by talking to people but I do get your point if you don't want to talk or have nothing to talk about, it can feel intrusive or people are creating drama unnecessarily.0