There is a guy that I like but he has told me that his last relationship didn't end too badly but it wasn't fun. He said that his relationships never really worked out and all. He also told me that heshe been single and he likes how it's been going so far and he can just focus on himself, it's easier that way. He can just focus on work or whatever he wants. He siad the majority of his time he spends working and sleeping. He shows signs that he likes me but then it's like he won't go all the way in and move to the next step. If asked about relationship stuff he tells me the things that I have mentioned above. But he has also told me that he likes me. And when we'return togetger he acts like he likes me. Maybe he's just a waste of time? Or should I keep him as a option as I date others?
Most Helpful Guy
Most people (guys and girls) are hesitant if they've been hurt in the past. If hurt badly enough, they may avoid relationships for a while. It sounds like he just wants to date you and get to know you slowly. Doesn't want anything serious yet. You have to decide (depending on what you want) if it's a waste of your time or not. How much do you like him? You don't have to rush into anything.1
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Most Helpful Girl
if you dont want to get hurt and waste your time, please move on, drop him and date others because you're looking for a relationship and he doesn't. no matter what the reason is, you guys are just not on the same page. i had personal experiences about this and i wish i had the strength to leave. if he really likes you like he said, when he's ready for a relationship, he will find you again and it's up to you then to decide whether you still want him. for now just leave the guy!1