There is the guy I matched with on tinder. He seems like the quieter type. I added him on Facebook.. And he has no girl action, he seems like a quiet musician guy who likes reading and chillin out. He seems really nice too. Would it be okay if I just straight up asked him if he'd like to get together sometime? Those words exactly? Or should I say I'd like to see you sometime without asking him? I'm pretty attractive, but I'm super introverted and shy myself... But I guess I don't mind asking him. My friend told me I should never ask a guy because they would ask if they wanted to. It's just he seems not like the type to chase women or be like confident in asking women out. Of course this is my take on it. Our convo on tinder died out and he seemed to really want to get to know me but didn't take initiative, and then he deleted his tinder so I had to find him on fb. He accepted my request today. Should I send him a message tonight? If so what?
No, girls can ask, it isn't a turn off
75% (27)91% (59)85% (86)Vote
Yes, there's no chase and she appears easy, so it's turn off
DAMN SORRY I clicked the wrong choice! I meant "No, girls can ask out, it isn't a turn off" Based on what you said it sounds like you've got nothing to lose and everything to gain from asking him out. Go for it mannn c: I've asked guys out before and they always said yes unless they just blatantly weren't interested- then they would at least tell me so I can stop trying. GOOD LUCK!!