There is the guy I matched with on tinder. He seems like the quieter type. I added him on Facebook.. And he has no girl action, he seems like a quiet musician guy who likes reading and chillin out. He seems really nice too. Would it be okay if I just straight up asked him if he'd like to get together sometime? Those words exactly? Or should I say I'd like to see you sometime without asking him? I'm pretty attractive, but I'm super introverted and shy myself... But I guess I don't mind asking him. My friend told me I should never ask a guy because they would ask if they wanted to. It's just he seems not like the type to chase women or be like confident in asking women out. Of course this is my take on it. Our convo on tinder died out and he seemed to really want to get to know me but didn't take initiative, and then he deleted his tinder so I had to find him on fb. He accepted my request today. Should I send him a message tonight? If so what?
- No, girls can ask, it isn't a turn off75%(27)85%(86)Vote91%(59)
- Yes, there's no chase and she appears easy, so it's turn off25%(9)15%(15)Vote9%(6)
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There is not a single circumstance where a guy would not prefer to be asked out by a girl unless he finds her unattractive but even then that's a non issue.
I wish every girl I was interested in would have asked me out at least I would have known they liked me enough to make a move instead of me being left in a state of wonder...
My ending statement is this - I think girls should ask guys out, girls seem to have a better sense of compatibility... Well maybe not but at least life would be easier if they did more often.2