My ex and I broke up, but giving "us" another try and taking things slow for almost a week now. We met twice and had a great time together and ended up having sex multiple times later. Yesterday, I tried calling him by our nicknames and he was quiet. He mentioned he would eventually be able to call me our nickname again. That made me feel pretty shitty, and I couldn't perform sexually. I don't want to try by having sex casually with one another, would like it to mean something. I'm scared, we will only meet and have sex until he decides he wants to be with me again. In this case, am I crazy to hold off on sex until we repair our relationship? Or is sex an important part of the process?
Most Helpful Guy
if I were you, I wouldn't put out for him. If you're willing to give things another shot and he's not putting in the effort, then kick him to the curb. There's lots of good guys out there. Just take your time until your comfortable with that person.1
Most Helpful Girl
I'm with you on this one, you've done the sex thing already. If he really wants to fix things then leave the sex out of it, otherwise it will just become a fuck buddy arrangement with no emotional closeness. Do you really want it to end up as that?1