Guys: If you tell a girl you want to repair the relationship and take things slow, how would you demonstrate this to a girl? Would sex be a concern for you?
Most Helpful Guy
Generally I reached a level where I don't let relationships get to a broken state anymore by learning how to deescalate conflicts quickly with a stoic mindset. That and I tended to pick women who didn't push my buttons.
But if I imagine I was in a brokenhearted state when younger, and I was given another chance for some reason, and combined it with some of what I learned over the years, I'd probably do everything I can to be enjoyable company to the woman. I'd avoid all drama, avoid dwelling on apologies, mostly just make sure we have a good time together and enjoy and miss each other's company -- with or without sex.2
Most Helpful Girl
I don't think most people bother trying to fix things. According to my experience, people are extremely lazy.1