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I think guys have to have experience with both before they blurt out an answer. It's like anything in life, we want the pros without the cons #brexit #feminism.
Both are their own separate package deal. I went from low maintenance to exclusively high maintenance, to a mix, back down to low maintenance.
Do I get everything I want? No. Can you always get what you want? No. But if you try sometimes, you might just find, you get what you need. I got what I need. Shaved/waxed legs, someone who watches her diet and works out to a reasonable degree (given how many hours she works), and keeps sex reasonably interesting here and there.
From there on, you have to remember, things could be worse. You could be with someone unattractive, or fat, or lazy, or very demanding, or complainy, or controlling, or insecure, or jealous, or dependent, or with a low sex drive. So, "Don't let the perfect become the enemy of the good." Good is good, it's not bad, and it's not "Well, this could be better."
With a high maintenance girl, the sex is not amazing. Common misconception. The actual sex is not amazing. It's rarely even good. The best sex I've had was with low maintenance girls. The only thing that's easier with high maintenance girls is "arousal." They look good, so it's easier for you to get turned on and hard (or be interested in sex). After that initial hurdle, however, they do almost nothing in the "excitement" department.
There are exceptions. There are low maintenance girls who dress up and get done up really well when they want to turn their man on. There are high maintenance girls who put in the effort to get and keep their guy excited during sex. There is one thing that's universal, though...
High maintenance girls feel entitled, and they inevitably always have some kind of character or personality flaw that leads them to choose to "negotiate life" by being dressed up and done up and have high demands. It can be very basic, such as a belief that people who simply "want more" or are "very demanding" are "higher quality people." And so, the negative trait is linked to her identity as a person.
With the other competing demands of life, I'd rather be with someone that's low maintenance and does it for me sexually, than have that extra arousal but have to deal and tolerate with everything else that comes along with it.0