I'm single and i have not been on dates in years but I have always believed in not having sex with a guy that I'm dating.
Dating is getting to know each other, so If a guy takes me our for a date whether we split 50/50 or he pays I do not feel obligated to have sex with him just the same as when a man is not obligated to marry or make a girl his girlfriend.
I'm a pretty laid back person and I do not feel entitles to anything but that does not mean that I am going to spread my legs just because a guy I just met takes me on a date.
3mo *entitled When I say in the future I mean when I get into a relationship
You're not obligated no, because he shouldn't be expecting that just because you're dating that you'll have sex, though with more serious relationships I think that's mostly assumed, so by that time I would hope you guys would have already had that conversation.
Soo... when do you want to "spread your legs"? Even married couples still go on "dates". I'm sort of confused, you're going to continue learning something new about that "said person" no matter what. You shouldn't feel obligated it's not mandatory, morelike, a bonus. lol
Just say, "I'm not ready to have sex with you yet". If they're not okay with that, there won't be a second date. Easy, right? Of course, there is no obligation, and you shouldn't have to clarify this, but it'll make things easier for the both of you.
Only if he asks or imply it if he suggests it. Otherwise he'll think you mean no sex ever, even if you're exclusive and even good men can't wait that long. You're not obligated to sleep with anyone you don't want to.