So on new years I booked a hotel for my boyfriend and I and he called me and said he had to stay in another city so I spent it with my friends then on Valentine's we were going to go out spend the night together but then he messaged me on MySpace that he couldn't come instead of texting me directly cause I barely check my MySpace and he turned off his phone and on Easter he did the same thing he messaged me on MySpace so that I didn't get the message. so I'm worried that he doesn't want to spend any holidays with me because he's with someone else. What do you think?
Most Helpful Guy
Hoist the colours! The red ones!
I think his MySpace strategy is too obvious. Everybody knows MySpace is obsolete, so when you say something he'll be like "but I messaged you on myspace!!".
Him behaving like this is a big problem. It's clear that he doesn't want to spend time with you. Whether or not he is actually cheating, is not clear, but it's somewhat irrelevant at this point.0
Most Helpful Girl
I think that sounds suspicious but in cases like this, you should be telling your boyfriend that you feel a little bit put-off by these things, and call him on some of the specific red-flags versus worrying yourself silly. Once you're already in a state of suspecting your s/o, nearly everything becomes 'potential evidence'.0