He's 21 and I'm 31, at first I think he liked me but then he discovered that though I'm attractive I'm a woman in pain. So I asked him to describe 4 things about me and one of the things he said was broken. And that hurts. I've knocked things down in his apartment , I've slapped him threw up in front of him and he still continues to agree to hookup with me. We cuddle, watch TV together and at night he holds me when I
Spend the night. I know he dates older women just curious as to why he still sees me and what's your outlook on this?
Most Helpful Guy
At his age, older women are more relaxed and more confident sexually and they are generally grateful for the attention of a younger man so, to some extent, it is probably a matter of ego gratification for him. Slightly older women are easier to please in most ways and tend to have less drama.
When he calls you "broken," is he referring to damage done by a previous relationship?0
Most Helpful Girl
Why does he continue to sleep with you? Because you let him and you're available for him to so. If you're OK with him dating other women and your ok with having a casual relationship with him, then he's won the trophy already, for a guy that's like hitting the jack pot. You're fulfilling one of his needs and he's able to keep his options open with others.
The question is though, is that what you want?0