Well the first guy I dates was rich and wouldn't let me pay even when I offered everytime. Second... I even jumped at the cashier to take my fucking cash but the guy dodged me and paid xD. Third guy I dated... he paid for tickets and I payed for the food and the guy I am currently dating is filthy rich and takes to places I couldn't afford in my dreams so no point trying although I bought meals and coffees and stuff after A LOT of insisting at McD or CCD even though I was kinda embarassed and he found it highly amusing.
Yes I paid for myself and for the person. But our date was awkward, and it was at a McDonalds... Details are even funnier about how we ended up in McDonalds but anyways. It was funny. I can do that again. I am a strong woman and I am earning my money. There is no condition in my book that says the guy should pay in the first date. I can do that, or we can split the bill. I am fine with that. I rather prefer to watch the guy's behaviors when I pay, or split the bill. If the guy is overreacting I'd be thinking that the guy believes in no equality when it comes to gender, and that's a no-no for me. Or if a guy forces you to split the bill with an unkind manner, then I would think he is a very stingy person, which is also a big no for me.
The only reason why I've never paid for a date is lack of money. I'm a student, and I can barely afford to go out with my friends, let alone on dates. In the future, when I'm working, I would love to pay for dates or split the tab.
have never would never. guys only expect girls to pay if the girl is like ugly or fat. if you're a bad bitch and he is proud to be seen with you and/or really likes you as a person he's not gonna expect you to pay.
I haven't paid on a first date.. but I pay for many dates in my relationship. Whoever has more money during that time treats the both of us; sometimes it's me, sometimes it's him. Of course he hates when I pay because he wants to be the provider but in a relationship, we both hustle
Whoever asks pays. I've paid and been paid for. Who ever initiates it should see it through in my opinion. If I am not feeling it (romantically) then I split the bill. Spliting the bill makes it feel like it's just a hang out, makes you more comfortable in a sense so that you don't have to feel awkward about not being into it, hopefully you can coem out of it one friend richer if not oh well it was worth the try !.
I would pay for myself so he doesn't think I owe him something.
Only men that fight so women dont pay for their first dates are ones that are too insecured of their "manhood" they are little boys, not men if they think women paying for first date is against their "manhood" which these little boys don't have.