I'm entering my senior year of high school and all I can think about is after this year is college and me and my boyfriend going to college no where near eachother. We both really love eachother we've been best friends for 6 years and have been together for almost half a year. Him and I always talk about our future as if we are getting married tomorrow but I know we both are needy people. Do you believe in long distance and do you think we have a chance?
You both have been together for a very long time her, dear, and with so much love invested, a long with time, I see a Future with One another, even in A... LDR. Make sure Skype is One of the Most Important factors in keeping Communication open here, dear. It takes Two special people to Take the Time and Make the Effort to keep the Coals burning, and if only One is doing this on His or Her own end, it can Grow and Go dead real Quick in the Wishy waters. Mother nature has planted a Nice seed with a most Amazing chemistry with you and your Bestie from the Restie. It's up to you both to Nurse and Nurture this though, so you can find out along the Lines of Communication if it's meant to be Reaped into a Real Romance story one day. I know all about LDR. They are one of the Hardest to have and to Uphold of any. However, if a couple Love one another, no Mountain nor Mole hill will keep you apart, you will join hands and climb every step of the Way, just go slow with the Flow of Baby steps every Day. Good luck and My blessings. xx
Sometimes it doesn't work, but for some people it really does. If you really care for him and your relationship then it would definitely be worth a try. Better than giving up and then wondering what could've happened, right?
It's not impossible to make them work but extremely challenging and its rare they survive. Over time trust issues start to surface and insecurities develop. You start to feel envious of people they are spending time with in real life, because you know you can't spend that quality time with them whenever you want .
Usually people build an illusion of what their life could be like together , and what the person is like in real life. When they do finallly meet, in most cases, their illusion is shattered because everything is not how they imagined it to be
The only way to make a long-distance relationship survive is if both people are in constant contact, and both make compromises and sacrifices. It'll only endure if one person eventually uproots to live near the other.
You need to be an emotionally strong person to endure a long-distance relationship. I'd rather hold onto my heart until I could hold him in my arm
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