Most Helpful Guy
For me with the way I fall in love, it'll expedite things. For example, I married my wife and we had sex on the first date. If I had sex with her later, it would have taken longer for us to get married.
That accelerated the whole process of falling in love with her, since I tend to discover the extent of my love (or lack thereof) for a woman through sex.
Meanwhile there was a girl I dated for a while and we had sex a bit later, and that's when I realized I don't really have that deep of a romantic and sexual connection with her. The relationship fizzled out after that and ended up a stale note. If we had sex sooner, it would have ended sooner.1
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Most Helpful Girl
I think sexual chemistry is important to me, so I'd like to know sooner rather than later if I have that connection with someone. I've had sex on the first date and dated that person for months or years and I've had it not work out. There isn't a definitive answer to this really, depends on the people.1