I wen’t on a date with a girl and it went very well. We talked and talked, she was cuddling up to me, and we had a long make out session at the end before saying goodbye. It was very obvious that she liked me and I liked her. My only concern was that she mentioned her ex a couple times and also mentioned she just got out of a relationship. So a couple days later I go ahead and schedule a second date with her and she said yes. However, on the day of the second date she sent me a text saying she’s not gonna be able to make it and she’s not in the right place/time to be seeing people. I replied by saying that I’ll give her space but I can’t wait for her even though I wanted to. (I was trying to be nice about it) The last thing she said to me was “I will let you know if anything changes.” And that was that, I haven’t contacted her in a week. Should I ever contact her? Should I wait and see if she contacts me? Is this a test? What do you think happened? Thanks.
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She's not ready for a relationship. She was honest about it and told you that she can't really see anyone right now. And that's ok, she seems like a nice girl since she could have just as easily simply lead you on and then vanished without saying anything.
Chasing this girl won't help, so no, I don't think contacting her will help, or is a good idea in general. You can wait around for her to contact you, since she did say she'll let you know when/if she feels ready. Or you could just move on and find someone else. It's really up to you. But contacting her is probably not so smart since you clearly want more, and she doesn't.0
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