I'm sorry to say that it's not the usual game anymore. Most women want a man that they have to "fix" which is... well in my opinion.. stupid. People forget to accept one another for who they are and so gentlemen can be forgotten in the progress... but don't give up! There will be that one girl who sees it and she'll truly love you for it!
But it's also good if a man can show that he can provide for her, it's just in our genes... we look for the strong caveman... even though we have evolved for a long time... this just hasn't changed.
Personally I love gentlemen and I wish there were more of them around but they are just a lot harder to find. I agree with what the first user said about how it isn't the same anymore and how women these days just want a boyfriend so they can fix them. Don't give up though, you'll meet someone. There are some of us though out there who will accept you just the way are and not try to change you nor fix you.
No. Don't ever give up. Chose the right girl for you. Don't just date girls without knowing their personality. Remember the saying that : Girls fall in love to a guy who's always with them? This is true. I fell in love with my close friend just because I spend so much time with him.
I have a problem with your premise. I don't think it's true.
Well believe it or not, women chase men because they have a reason to. That reason is that the men who disrespect them now, at a time, were very charming and sweet to us. And we chase that. That is what we want back, the charm, and the kindness and love. So if you get a girl that is interested in the first place, then just be consistent, and she will appreciate that.