Me and my girlfriend have been dating for a year and two months. She is 18 and I am 17. She s moving back to her home country and I am staying where we met. She is honeslty one of the best things that has happened to me. Currently she wants to change the way she dresses, acts, people view her, and possibly a tattoo and piercings. This is all came down on me at the same time and she just told me that she never liked the way dressed during the time we have been dating. Is it fine for me being scared of her turning slutty? Is it okay for me to ask her not to wear anything to revealing, having her ass or boobs out and no mayor cleavage? Like I am fine if it makes her butt look good for her boobs as long as it isn't skim tight. I am kind of in shock for all the change going on. I really do love her and care. I feel like her boobs and butt should be something more private and special for later on. I want to save myself for her. Is it too much too expect back? I think it is reasonable for me to ask of her this. We both want to wait for marriage. It is like not showing my dick to someone who likes me.
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While I could see her viewing this as controlling, and I'm the minority here I'm sure because women these days want to do what they want, I've never understood why a woman in a relationship would put her entire butt and breasts on display for the world unless her guy just liked it that way. I respect my husband and absolutely love to show it off for him, but to go out in a skirt short enough that my butt cheeks are hanging out before I need to sit or bend over with a sliver of fabric covering my nipples is just disrepectful to me. Can you see a little of my cleavege? Yep, I have big boobs so there's a lot of it, but I don't deliberately wear something cut to my belly button because I feel like thats disrepectful to him. Again, that's just me.6