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Most Helpful Girl
You have to forgive him/her for your sake and move on. If you lack forgiveness, you will grow very bitter and this will reflect and cause problems for future relationships, and even your marriage to eventually fail. It will stagnate it, and make you grow physically ill and cause tremendous and unnecessary stress. I would avoid dating someone who still lacks un-forgiveness in a past relationship. They will eventually target and take the stress out on you, if you do something that reminds them of the offense. So unless you can handle a person like that, it's advisable in my opinion to avoid them at all cost until they forgive. They are still bitter and miserable about the cheating. Let go, before you end up hurting an innocent person because your still angry. Or seek professional counseling.2
Most Helpful Guy
I don't get that forgiving part and never will.
No, they don't deserve my forgiveness and that would be the end of the relationship.
I pick myself up, move on with class and continue my life. Calm and quick. No anger, no screaming, no violence. The next day will be my new and first day of me being single again like nothing happened. That ex of mine wouldn't have my trust any longer.1