Guys, I ended up crying on a first date?
So I was on a date with this guy that I've liked for a year, and he was talking about his dog and I started to cry because mine died.
legit tears. would you lose interest in a girl if she did this on your first date?
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Loose interest !! Are you kidding me right now? Heck no I would be even more interested in this girl being she actually has feeling for something other than her self. I would come closer to finding a reason to ditch a girl that stated her dog had passed without showing emotional pain. If dude has issue with it that's your clue to not agree to a second date
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It would increase my interest. It opens an honest emotional side, which is often hidden on first dates. If she doesn't run away, I sure wouldn't, and it would probably support the making of a second and subsequent dates. That said, if she starts using loss and tears to manipulate me, then I'd start backing away carefully if not quickly.
You are asking guys to try and understand a woman's emotions?
Personally, I would feel your pain from the loss as I get devastated when I lose a pet dog.
No I wouldn't lose interest, I'd just ask what's wrong :).
Definitely a bit awkward...
Thats be fine by me. Dogs become part of the family. Does he know thats why you cried?
Not if she explained the tears, not at all. Totally understandable.
No I would feel a thing awkward though
no of course not. i would comfort her.
No, did you talk about your dog then? That might make me more into you
No. I lost my dog when I was 3, I know how it feels. I'd understand.
Might be a little awkward but if I liked you it wouldn't change anything
I've had that happen. I never called her again.
No and i know exactly how you feel because i lost my dog about 1998 i would feel like a jerk for making you cry
Did you explain why you were crying or just burst into tears in the middle of a story about how his dog bit a stranger?
I would think, I made her cry. But, doesn't matter unless you did it in public than its bit embarrassing. Girls will call you names but men don't bother.
Heck no I'll feel for her and comfort the best way I can
i wouldn't get to hung up on this
It would be awkward, but I wouldn't lose interest in her.
No, not at all. I'd just know never to talk about dogs again if it was me.
I lost my dog yesterday 😢
Then found him under my bed an hour later!
I would be like wth at first, then I would ask why you're crying.
No, it's totally understandable, just apologize and tell him it was recent.
It definitely wouldn't drive me away, it would make me wonder if I did something wrong and how I could make you feel better.
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