I have one big problem in dating. I am 27 and have been single my whole life. This means I have never had a boyfriend and I have never even dated anyone for a month or two. What I have experienced is mostly first dates and sex, not that I expected anything when I agreed to hookup with a guy. One thing I have been wondering about lately is that I occasionally receive attention from guys who are my type. I find them attractive. I feel that I click with them, and that we have some things in common. They will be the ones who initiate and compliment my appearance and I wonder how many of them are lying, but their interest is never genuine. They never want to date me. If they want anything, it is just sex. It makes me think I am not attractive enough for them, like I am just there to flirt with and fill time, an ego trip, maybe to hookup with until they find someone who is girlfriend material. So I wonder if my looks are often one of the main problems and that these guys are out of my league.
At this point I find the idea of anyone nice actually wanting to date me incomprehensible. I know most people would agree these days that dating has become harder but for me, it is impossible. It seems like if I did have boyfriends before, they would have all been guys I didn’t like and didn’t find attractive. There were some guys where it was so obvious they wanted to date me but I tell myself they don’t count because I wasn’t interested. Therefore nobody ever wanted to date me. There are probably two guys I regret not giving a real chance. The rest were terrible, in their looks and/or the way they acted. Then again I don’t think most of those guys wanted to date me after a few dates or talking to me anyway.
Most Helpful Guy
It's not all about looks, if you think it is you aren't ready for a relationship. Don't generalize as this sounds like experiences with some assholes in your area. The girls in my area suck too, that's why I don't want to date them cause they only want looks, sex and money. You need to get out of your area or go on a dating website and meet some people who are interested. I suggest you stop thinking so negative of yourself cause guys don't like a girl with low self esteem. I'm almost 17 and have never had a girlfriend, sex or my first kiss but I couldn't care less cause I know there's someone outside waiting for me in the future. You are no different, there is a great guy out there waiting for you and he's trying to find you but you aren't looking for him. Start looking1
Most Helpful Girl
I know this is over said but you jsit haven't met the right guy yet1