when he's not around me he doesn't really start a convo that much or text me much but when he's with me he acts like he's really into me and makes me so happy. Even when he acts like he's not into me, my friends say they can tell by the way he looks at me that he really likes me. I know he doesn't want anything serious but if he really does like me then why doesn't he act like it when I'm not with him? its always me asking to hang out or to text first (most of the time) How can I switch it around?
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well it seems to me that he wants to see you when he wants to see you, in other words your on his time if a guy likes you he is going to make the effort to text you. And he also may not be makin the effort because you are the one that is always asking to hang out to the point where he feels like he already knows your gona do it so why bother to make the effort. I would say stop texting him, and asking him to hang out first and if he still doesn't even bother then that means he is not really that into you and what your friends said about him liking you may not be so true.0