i had a heart surgery when I was little, i might have to get another one in few years. i've been dating this guy he is a bit older than me... Like 12-13yr older and he is very intelligent... Genuine.. Caring kind soul and romantic... I could feel that im liking him more and more everyday
i have a big scar on my chest and it was not easy to open up to people and have a serious relationship with someone because of my health
should i tell him when he is about to see my scars... or.. When we become closer? we have been dating about a month now and i think i finally get to make love 😳
I don't know about when, maybe soon if you're going to make love, but I think "how" might help. It might be nice to embrace him, cuddle, talk gently and warmly, build that warm kind of affectionate tone for each other. Then tell him gently. That would allow you to tell him in the most comfortable kind of setting.
LOL, its normal try to be confident okay. Its not some ordinary scar or like stupid scars on face off course its due to operation. I think you have bypass it usually left pretty big cut like scar but again ITS FUCKING NORMAL. People have scars on cranial side of pelvis on skin due to surgical removal of appendix.
I would wait until they proposed. I dated one girl that told me all of her medical problems after dating about 2 months. After she told me every thing that was wrong with her I didn't want to date her anymore.