Ideally we'd all like to meet our so in real life during a romantic setting or things of that nature, as it happens in the movies, but for some of us its highly unlikely. I am at this point pretty much working 24/7 striving to move my career in a prosperous direction. So I have practically no time to go out and meet people.
Resorting to online dating seems to be the only way to actually meet someone I can devote my time to. But on the other hand and I dont want to end up going to family reunions in the future and talk about how i met my wife on fricken tinder.
So what do you think, if a person is busy, never goes out drinking, partying, clubbing because he despises those kind of environments, is it justifiable to go with online dating, or is it pathetic?
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For most people, I'd say it most definitely is weak and pathetic. For people who live in areas with small population < 5000 people, or who are looking for niche interest, then perhaps it can make sense, but if you live in a city of hundreds of thousands or even millions of people you're so full of shit if you say you can't meet someone.
Especially for guys, meeting and attracting a high quality person is so much easier in person. Weekend afternoons and weekday evenings right after work are great times to meet people out at grocery stores. Everyone shops for food, why not talk to some people while you're there? Malls are also great places to meet people. Make friends, get invited to parties, and meet new people there.
Online dating is like playing the lottery. Sure, you might win, but odds are high you'll waste time and money and have nothing to show for it. Sure, it takes a lot of couage and feels awkward to go out and meet people at first, but if you want a quality partner to spend you life with then you need to learn to be a quality person yourself. It's not easy, but it is worth it.0