Me and my boyfriend were together 6 years, he's 25 I'm 24. we didn't live together. He was the love of my life we did fight but always sorted it and was okay after. He met this girl a year ago the became best friends ( she says she's a lesbian) he works with her. They go out from dinner, gym together, drinks, they actually do more things then we ever did with me. I was never aloud meet her and if I asked him he would say I'm just jealous and I'll act like a bitch to her? Which I never would do. We had plans last week to sit in and had a cosy night together but he went gym with her and then decided to go back to hers and hang out? He didn't come home till 11pm and I didn't get down till after 11 so it was latish. He always leaves me waiting. So I asked him when I seen him why did he go back to hers and he started screaming at me saying ' I'll go back to hers if I want to look at you your just being a cu*t and being so jealous of her, seriously get out of my house and go fu*king home' so I had to leave and go home. He didn't speak to me all week and on Friday I text him saying wanna talk? He said ' no' no I left him. 10 minutes ago I just get a text from him, ' you bring unneeded stress to my life, this whole week has been so peaceful without you, i do love u and care but I think it's for the best to end it' I didn't write back, I'm just so upset it's over his friend and over a text. He wasn't the nicest boyfriend he gave out to me a lot and called me names when we had fights and he always got angry when I tried to speak my mind or tell him something, he stopped taking me out, and never did anything with me. I do love him. Any advice? Why do u think he's done this? Should I write back to him? Also he still has in a relationship on Facebook with me? And his WhatsApp picture is still Me and him?
Most Helpful Guy
Just a bunch of lies everything he said. he's just using whatever excuse to break up with you cause he's seeing someone else, most likely this "lesbian", cause more stupid excuses surrounding that too. Dont be so nice to him though when he dosent really deserve it, short said he's being a shitty person and he tries to shift the blame onto you, making himself the victim and you the villian.
In either case though, sounds like good riddance anyway, someone who cheat and play games like that isent really a keeper either way.2
Most Helpful Girl
It sounds to me that he has moved on from the relationship. I wouldn't reply and I'd just pack up his things that he'd want, ask him where he'd like me to take them and tell him to take care of himself. If you really love him then wish him the best. I dont agree with his way of doing this, but it's obvious that this is what he wants. I'd rather be alone then with a guy who wanted out. Good luck.2