How to get guys on tinder to ask you out?

so as a girl I have a lot of matches on tinder, most of these guys talk to me but the problem is that they don't ask me to meet them or the more common scenario, they do and then they back out. How can I get them to ask me (without me saying directly)?

also any first message ideas?


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Most Helpful Guy

  • "(without me saying directly)?"

    And why not? In fact, why not ask them out?

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Most Helpful Girl

  • Be flirty with them :) I've noticed that when you openly flirt with guys on Tinder and make it obvious that you are into them they'll be more inclined to actually ask you out. Compliment them too :) this will make them know they have the "Okay" from you :)

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What Guys Said 2

  • Wtf.. If u r hot, u won't need to lol that's what tinder is for and if they backing out. They must not think u hot

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  • be direct... men in this day and age are cowards...

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