I don't need answers that are about "how women never ask out guys" or "it never happens so I would never know". Not looking for the criticism or the rant about how it never happens. I want to take control and ask out guys on dates but I don't know what would be a good way to ask them out? Especially if I'm meeting them for the first time after talking to them online. I'm 19 years old so I think drinks, coffee or lunch would be too formal.
But this isn't about what I think; how would you guys want to be asked out on a date? Where would you like to go and what to do?
It would be interesting to know what a guy wants for once :)
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Smile at him, be happy to see him, when you talk to him, ignore literally everything else around you. Smile, tilt your head a little, maybe play with your hair, give him a couple of compliments, "you look really good" or something like that. Then straight to business, ask him to do whatever. You think drinks, coffee, lunch are too formal, ask him to hang out, go to the beach, whatever. "Do you want to hang out?" then get kind of wide eyed and hopeful, like him saying yes would just make your day. And if he does say yes, get excited, and a little giddy.2