Ok, so there's this girl that im talking to. We met in college.
We've only seen each other in person just once.
I know a lot about the sports i play, exercise, etc.
Even though you can see me and instantly think "fit guy", im not quite sure about her. She has this potbelly that i think is super cute and it hangs a little. I also see that she smokes. I don't really care about those things but i do see them as traits unathletic people have.
I don't know if starting a conversation about sports or exercise would make her uncomfortable. Should i? Im just so comfortable talking about those thing.
You can talk about it and it probably won't make her uncomfortable, but remember to also ask her about her interests. People love to talk about themselves and their interests, so they are more drawn to people who let them and who seem interested in what they have to say.