Hi, so I was open with my new boyfriend about my health issues. I have had brain surgery and other stuff and have been healing successfully and doing great! All of this was before I met him. I wanted to tell him I still deal with issues, especially my heart. I explained to him, even though it was acary, that I have heart disease. He reaponded With "you're a hypochondriac". Ummm what? I flipped out and told him you're an asshole, have you listened to anythinf I've said or even googled my condition. I dont look sick by the way.) so this adds to people questioning my level of sickness so I dont know if I should forgive him. He sent me a "so sorry" text, that's it. Not even a phone call. Dump him for good? Give him a chance to try and understand the health stuff?
Most Helpful Guy
I think you just "blast all that on him at once", considering your way of telling anyone can mistake it for joke like this.0
Most Helpful Girl
He won't understand your situation unless he had it, he sounds very immature about your relationship in total. I say dump him and save yourself any heartache that you may have in the future. If he doesn't understand you now, he won't in the future. He doesn't sound understanding either.0