I enjoy it when she's having as good a time as I am. I like doing things old school though, so hopefully she's fine with me paying, picking her up, getting the door. Raised that way and I prefer it.
I like knowing a girls happy with me, comfortable, relaxed. But if I date it means I know you well enough anyway, so generally the comfortable part is already taken care of it's just making sure she's fine.
In the case of a guy, I don't know really. Guess that we're both having a good time and nobody makes our date their business.
I want to see her put effort in... by that I mean putting effort into her appearance, I dont want to have to carry the entire conversation or be responsible for entertaining her. The biggest turn off on a date for me is when women feel just by showing up they did thier part. It should be US having fun TOGETHER not a one sided affair.
Paintballing ideally on the same team, rock climbing maybe if she's ok with heights , watching a scary movie so she can be brave and make me feel safe when the monsters come out 👅 that or lazer tag. Mabey lazer tag then watch a scary movie or rom com together with spaghetti and meatballs.
Go to a shooting range and target practice Go to a skate park and have at it and I don't know how to skate Go to a reptile expo and touch all the lizards and boas snakes you can Go to an arcade and play every single game there Go to the zoo and flip off the monkeys 🙊 Both of us build a Twinkie tower see how high it goes. Keeping it simple by going to the mall List is endless